I used to love doing that! I dont feel like I really know him at all. He gets annoyed and sighs and does the What do you want from me now?? A lovely text of him telling me that we can talk everyday when I wake up in the morning. He told me he still wanted me and he loved me so i started talking to him again but things still felt weird. Not fair and a relationship is 2 waysSince you have a Son and a new job would NOT recommend that you move to him. Also he NEVER wants to have sex so that concerns me too. When I ask, he gives me some reasons. But he was not my husband and my family didnt approve of such activities before marriage. to think I was already 32 years old still got fooled by a man. He was not able to go back to school again because his government decided that no one will graduate this year. If hes not at work, hes in his reclyner n thats where he stays n doesnt get up unless he has to pee. Hes been consistent so far. (this actually backfired) and caused huge tension and we nearly broke up several times, but when i tried to give him more space to understand his situation, my worst fears came true because we started talking less and less. So many thoughts, so many scenarios. I feel like I have to bow down to him because its always his way. Dont let him have it easy. This helps me to decide that I cant wear rose colored glasses with my current relationship .thanks for helping me see what I have to remove from my life . For the past few weeks we only have time in night to chat since hes busy for work but he always talk about sex and video chat with me to see my pussy and whenever I rejected him I dont get a reply or he would say hed go to sleep. And to be fair to him around a year in he got the message and now regularly checks in and asks to meet up. you are still young and you should take this time to learn about yourself and then find the right man that will want a future with you. Thats something you need to know. Thats why I feel like I need to leave. Weve been together for almost 3 years and Ive stuck out the lack of attention for about a year and it really hurt. I dont think what Im asking for is difficult to do that it would take months to see any results. Psychologically, the pressure was destroying me. is there a light at the end of the tunnel? We had the break up talk several times a day, and at the end of it, it was one of the other begging to stay together because they believed we could fix it. We had romantic dates and fell in love at first sight. So I stated being more involved in his hubbies then usual and listening. He takes everything personally like if I do something incorrectly or answer him the incorrect way or something he immediately snaps, f-bomb dropping included. Please advice and apologize for the long narration. Ask your boyfriend open-ended questions about how he thinks your relationship is going, and if theres anything you both can do to bring you closer together. Btw he put his board in a form of a heart on his wall for me . He feels sex is for marriage. He avoided conversations about his feelings, and we struggled to communicate & resolve issues. Please take some money you get from promotion and go to Counseling to help you. He has weak immune systems and get sick often so we do have days without communication.Im completely okay with not talking everyday. we havent dated for long (~3.5 months) so i could be overreacting, but at the same time, im tired of the lack of effort on his end. I could have written that. Instead of wishing things were different, practice accepting the fact that you cant change your boyfriend or make him want to spend time with you. Trust me, because I have gone through absolute bad times and still risen like a phoenix. Do you feel loved? I get Fridays and the weekend which I use to do an my studying, school work, exercise, self care, etc. Life is too short to waste it being miserable and stressed out and fighting over stupid shit. We could barely recover from the last blowout and a month or two later boom! Listen to your intuition, it never lies. You should definitely read the book why men love b*tches this really goes into depth on why men do that. But he still makes no effort in even recognizing relationship milestones like anniversaries, but he has done romantic things for the girl he chased for 6 years. Or also he went out and was feeling confused about the relationship where he didnt come home therefore he ended things in the morning after having a long night prob thinking about it. through text, he claims to love me and all that, but in person, i feel like he does the bare minimum. Heres my concern-We live 70kms apart amd stick to phone calls and texts and online communication. Like thank you for ruining an otherwise nice day/evening because I did not answer you the correct way when you asked if I refilled the ice tray. Sometimes when I try to kiss him he shoved me away. If you almost never see each other, then sitting down to talk about your relationship or his lack of effort would look much different than if you live together. His brother lives for free with his mother and he has nothing but contempt for him over it. He commented on Tues night wed do it the next night so I was completely excited and ready to go at then finally at bedtime he laid there with his eyes closed and when I put the moves on him he told me its time for sleep, that we are just cuddling. Ive been with my bf for a year & half but we have past history. You cant make him love you, or force him to make an effort in your relationship. It's also could be a sign your partner is unwilling to prioritize your relationship, communication has eroded, or you're no longer top-of-mind. Open your heart to Jesus; listen to His call on your life. He used to do things for me but it seems like he doesnt do anything. How did I give him permission? It was two day before his birthday so this was like a birthday present. Literally same. He now expects this but does not reciprocate. The key is to not give them the key to our happiness. Best to all! I go to his house on Sundays and help with his kids. I feel like we should break up but as I say he is my life its really difficult and I dont want to hurt him. I am insecure and scared because all my past relationships,Ive been either cheated on or dumped. Ive asked him to work on this and as the article says, he says he will and he does..for about a half a day. Then you explain and get everything fyn between you then after like two weeks he will he will give attitude again from no where five minutes he texts with love the other minutes he will text as if he doesnt care . That gives a clear instruction on how they can help meet your needs. I already had plans and I put a hold on being too available. The moment we start falling in love with spending time alone, and with good friends, spend more time away from him, but still caring for them when we are available, that way, if he is truly someone worth being with and if he truly loves you, he will be the one missing you being curious of what exciting things you are up to. Its amazing how identical to yours he is. Been with my boyfriend 2 years.he told me he smokes pot, which than i said im not supporting your habbit (which i meant financially). the hard part is we have a very deep connection, we understand eachother, and have the best friendship any partner could have I have recently told him on a few occasions how unhappy I have become. He does spend time with us and financially he is very supportive which Im great full for. My boyfriend got busy with his work, which is busier due to quarantine, and stopped putting in his usual thoughtful effort, so I stopped putting out, and now Im about to break up with him. And i blamed him roudly.. And he promised me that his intention was nit to cheat me and said sorry. Ive changed from an angry tone to a more assertive one but even if we sort them out, hed revert back to his old habits and ill start pointing fingers and he shuts it out again and eventually we stop talking about it altogether. Honestly he may need some space. He never tells me anything until i find out or i discuss my issues. And when I ask him what hes been doing that he cant call me, he gives me horrible excuses. What do I do? I dont know if I am being unreasonable. If you succumb to what you wish your relationship and boyfriend was, then youll find yourself begging or manipulating your boyfriend into making an effort in your relationship. About me. Let him go! I got back with my ex after months. It doesnt matter what words youre saying, the message is clear: I will tolerate this, as long as you let me explain repeatedly why I dont agree with it. The most important lesson Ive learned from my love life is this: My role is to set boundaries. Well today came and guess who backed out of the park?? He tells me constantly how much he loves me.. Its hard to deal with, but Im trying to just tolerate it until the coronavirus is over, in hopes that things will go back to normal. I had the same thing. This sounds like a mentally and abusive situation. He is highly smart so I am not going to spell it out for him. He is a very patient and calm person. He said he was my family and I took that wholeheartedly. Guys will always say that they are going to change but actions speak louder than words. All I can suggest is continue to be very clear with your communication. Thats it. Get woke honey, the mans just not that into you. He is quite affectionate and does make sure the bills are paid etc. I bought so much things to do for his birthday . We actually ended up breaking up and I tried to distance myself. im going through the same thing my boyfriend will not text me nor will he call me when i text him again he reply and said his mother getting on his nerve he goes to her house to take care of her he said he been going through alot with his mom very upset but my thing is what about me where do i fit into your life i dont even know if were still in a relationship my daughter say dont text or call him we been together over a year hes 52 im 55 what should i do im lost, Ive been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. If you ever need a friend dont hesitate to reach out. Say you have a date tomorrow night. He never plans to visit me unless I ask him when hes coming, like he doesnt do anything unless I nag him, and I dont want to be a nagging person so I thought its best we go separate ways and see if we can work it out. Afterwards hes been making the time but only when I remind him. My boyfriend is 22 years my senior and weve been dating over 8 months. We are now in quarantine and I have mostly been the one to come see him. Again Im the only one putting in effort. Best wishes. I dont do things just to expect it in return but you just want reassurance that youre appreciated. What you talk about really does depend on the issues youre facing, how long youve been together, and why your boyfriend isnt making an effort in your relationship. When your partner no longer cares about what you say, doesn't value your presence, and doesn't seem to be invested in whats going on in your life, its can feel as though they're taking steps toward living a life without you. A relationship is 50/50. Then I come home to him sleeping in bed. We must set boundaries and stick to them so we dont keep ending up here! He chose to try with his ex leaving me broken hearted but we remained friends. Because he needs time for himself and his past time projects, which is understandable as he is more introverted. Ask yourself what could be causing your boyfriend to pull away from you. Im pretty sure hell tell me I cant really go because its just an alumni weekend. This is exactly me, I always feel stupid for caring more, its like the bane of my existence. Ive held up my end and have been a loving girlfriend but Im not getting much back, but am also afraid of being alone. No girl its perfectly normal to miss how things where in the beginning! Theres no dignity or respect in how youre being treated. But things went roughed to both of us.. Hello everyone, i have a story to share! Ive been upset ever since and its only been a week but Im feeling really low and I have bad anxiety in general but its been worse lately because of him. Well, a few weeks have gone by and the love languages and arguing and overall communication has been better. My boyfriend and I been together for a few months ,we dated not really long time ago and now we are in long distance. Ive been with my mate for 8 years prior to dating we were band mates .I knew him to be extremely introverted and not the happy go lucky type but I honestly had no idea it would be like pulling a tooth without novocaine to get any emotional response, support or growth,out of him!I feel stunted and see my life ever changing and evolving yet his ,the same .He has taken on many of my attributes oddly ,yet I feel, Ive gained nothing in return. Hi, I have a very similar situation to yours. You need to rest your hopes, dreams and future on a love that never fails, a river that never runs dry. 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